hard limits

current hard limits. will change over time and depending on the dynamic. open to discussion.

• no permanent damage
• nothing under nails.
• nothing between toes (e.g. rope).
• can’t affect money, stability, work, sleep, relationship with others.
• can’t be denied meds.
• no animal cruelty.
• no dehydration.
• other people must consent.

given the scope of what could be done to it within these limits in the right hands, it doesn’t know what types of dynamics are fitting. it wants to be owned by that right pair of hands. perhaps what is fitting is that they own it but can still keep it at arm’s length, at least until it proves itself.

the trickiest part about ownership is that believes the UK is not good for it and it needs to live elsewhere.