hard limits

current hard limits. will change over time and depending on the dynamic. open to discussion.

• needs to be short durations.
• no permanent damage
• i need to ease into it a little. can’t go from nothing to maximum pain immediately.
• nothing under nails.
• nothing between toes (e.g. rope).
• can’t affect money, stability, work, sleep, relationship with others.
• can’t be denied meds.
• no animal cruelty.
• no dehydration.
• with brainwashing and gaslighting, need to be told that is what is to happen
  - i know this might sound counter-productive but, actually, when toy/dynamic is in the right condition (obsessed with her, in love with her, denied her completely) makes it more open to telling it how its wrong and what the correction is.
• other people must consent.