points

• not an object of desire. not desired.
• seen purely as a toy for entertainment, experimentation and exploration. not seen as a peer, friend or human within this.
• treated and genuinely regarded with borderline no care at all, consequences be damned
• Domme is very comfortable and finds genuine joy, happiness and entertainment in this.
  • not necessarily libidinous. in fact, slave is specifically not considered a sexual entity.
• intense pain
  • beatings
  • paddling, whipping,
  • long-term
  • ball-press
  • ass fucking
  • fucking machine
  • bound and beaten
    • tied up with between legs beaten badly.
      • kicking. with tools
  • general abuse
    • kicking
    • punching
  • heat
    • candles
    • hot metal
    • cigarettes
  • beaten bloody
  • icy heat and chillis
• total (complete) denial of sexuality
  • intense spiked chastity
  • pussy free
    • no PIV, no touch, no taste, no sight, no smell.
    • even explicit porn
  • highly sexualised but without sexuality
  • reference to what is between its legs banned
  • denied kissing
  • reduced to begging to be ass fucked. denied that too
    • pocket pussy in ass and that fucked instead
  • touch control
    • made to touch for x minutes
    • must earn time
    • touching in awful scenarios
    • progressively harder touching that is progressively worse
    • only when in pain
    • bad enough that it’s not worth it
    • touch only when suffocating
  • cuckholding, cuckqueaning, having real partners
  • the edge is a serious infraction
  • control of porn
  • it’s pleasure banned and a taboo topic
  • undeserving
• unfairness
• cnc
• extreme humiliation and degradation
  • treated as trash
  • given to men for free-use
  • fucking with food
  • forced to clean with tongue and mouth
  • tattoos
  • forced into sex work with men
  • drool
  • deep-throating
  • public
  • forced to fuck awful things
  • bladder control
  • seen and treated as sub-human, lesser than
  • genuinely not worth the Domme’s time
  • extreme gratitude and respect expected for everything, no matter how dire
  • removal of dignity
  • such disgust that sexuality is repulsive and never crosses the mind
  • frequent reminders of its station and what it does not have
  • jealousy
• rules
  • stupid rules that restrict or force for no reason
  • not allowed on furniture
  • rules around language
    • e.g. banned from referring to what’s between legs
    • anytime would ask for pleasure, must ask for something bad
  • high protocol
• push limits and boundaries
  • made to genuinely struggle
• strict, structured rules
• real, serious, consistent punishments and repercussions
• expectation of perfection and exact obedience
  • and obedience is simply expected, not for the sake of a reward
• collared
• bondage
  • kept bound for long durations
  • rope, metal, leather
  • wrapped
  • gags
  • sensory deprivation
  • mits (to render hands useless)
  • arms and legs bound back at joints (elbows and knees) to render limbs useless
  • mask, faceless - dehumanises
  • humbler
• starved
• shared
• absurd cruelty. anytime there is a choice for how to treat it, the more cruel is picked
• pushed to be better. pushed to be its ideal.
• expectation of utmost beauty and prettiness
• outfits. fabric and fashion. being dressed up. going out in public. make-up.
• broken
• abused
• a toy, nothing more
• permitted / forced for other Dommes to fuck with it
  • this is partially to reduce pressure
• service
  • given responsibility of any tasks and chores
  • e.g. must do all laundry
  • expectation of perfection
  • slavery
  • as you suggested, cleaning in a stupid and/slutty outfit
  • degrading in small ways, like cleaning the floor must be done on hands and knees
  • without talking, as if it’s not there
• worship
  • treat Domme with absolute respect, regardless of circumstance and what they’re doing to it
  • expectation of extreme gratitude
  • and yet slave is given less than zero respect
  • literal worship. Domme is a literal goddess, deity.
  • an obsession with the Domme
• pegging
• other denials
  • skin contact
    • full-body latex/whatever so you don’t get anything
  • specifically denied my Top - bc will become obsessed with them
    • like specifically denied their body, their skin contact, their sex, even if allowed others
  • food
  • speech
  • attention
• attention & neglect
  • once toy is denied most other things, attention becomes the currency
  • attention can be anything, good or bad
  • desperately trying to earn attention Domme’s attention even when nothing works
  • over time, have to work harder and do more for any attention
  • silenced so any attempts are through service / etc., not through whining
• shame
• genuine fear
• intensity for a long time
  • bondage
    • put in storage
    • wrapped
  • fucking
  • fucking machine
• low-energy domming
  • forced to find men to fuck with it
  • strict rules
  • performance
    - fucking its own throat
  • bound, extended periods
    • bound and left
    • tied to fucking machine
  • tell toy to bind itself
  • many rules, obeyed and enforced
• live-in
• periods of on/off
  • off:
    • doesn’t mean fully off
    • still don’t need to be tested well
    • may need to break denial sometimes
    • bit a step back to catch breath, process, word thoughts and feelings
• disgust
• spite
• entitlement. not gratitude

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some more points

(things i’m to seek out the experience of)

regardless of if i've done it before - this is an era of experience

• [ ] trampling
• [ ] being forced to go down on a guy
• [ ] being forced to be fucked by a guy
• [ ] wearing a dress in public
• [ ] wearing a skirt in public
• [ ] wear a miniskirt/dress in public
• [ ] drinking piss that's been collected
• [ ] someone pissing directly into my mouth
• [ ] someone using me regularly to piss in my mouth, keeping everything tidy in a way that it's actually just more convenient for them to use me.
• [ ] holding something awful in my mouth for a long time. public?
• [ ] fucked by a strap
• [ ] throat fucked by a strap hard
• [ ] intense, scary breathplay
  • [ ] have a top laugh at me while that's happening
  • [ ] have a top appear to stop paying attention
  • [ ] have a top be close and watch me as i panic and clearly enjoy it
• [ ] a top drawing blood in a painful way
• [ ] photoshoot
  • [ ] not bound
  • [ ] bound
• [ ] electrical play
• [ ] caged for at least a month without a break
• [ ] used as punching bag
  • [ ] suspended
• [ ] kicked between legs
• [ ] kicked on body
• [ ] slapped
• [ ] made to cry
  • [ ] by being slapped
• [ ] bound
  • [ ] rope
  • [ ] suspension
  • [ ] cable ties
  • [ ] barbed wire
• [ ] wear some latex
• [ ] wear some pvc
• [ ] have ever implement of pain used on me
• [ ] make a top's fantasy come true
• [ ] have a fucking machine used on me
  • [ ] bound
• [ ] cuckholding
  • [ ] be made to listen to a recording
  • [ ] be made to watch a recording
  • [ ] be made to watch in person
  • [ ] be made to participate
• [ ] fuck someone with a strap
• [ ] have my mouth and ass fucked at the same time
• [ ] sensory deprivation
  • [ ] short & longer term
  • [ ] bound and left for an extended period
• [ ] be bound and left for an extended period
• [ ] be made to fuck a fleshlight
• [ ] be made to go down on a fleshlight
• [ ] reduced to begging to go down on fleshlight (used?)
• [ ] have mouth used as ashtray
• [ ] have a top spit in a my mouth
• [ ] bound and have kali used on me
  • [ ] have her dragged up and down
  • [ ] have cock touched / fucked (with fleshlight?)
• [ ] be made to scream in agony
• [ ] continue to be hurt while i'm begging for it to stop
  • [ ] have a top laughing at me while it happens
  • [ ] have a top gag me while because of it but not stop
• [ ] humiliation & degradation
  • [ ] public
• [ ] be made to write erotica stories on particular topics and then read them out to someone while they touch themselves
• [ ] be whipped
• [ ] be made to throw up
• [ ] bladder control
• [ ] be made to wet myself (in public)
• [ ] be made to clean without
• [ ] have a top try to make me cry with frustration
• [ ] be actively tasting pussy for a week or two
• [ ] be actively getting to use my fingers inside pussy for a week or two
• [ ] have videos of me published online
• [ ] free use - blindfolded, bound, at a group event
• [ ] be made to use my mouth on awful things
• [ ] be honestly, genuinely told that a partner has no respect for me
  • [ ] that they couldn't imagine having sex with me and would never want to
• [ ] have a top tell me, unprompted, how much they enjoy doing these things to me
• [ ] have rubber bands used on me for pain
• [ ] tiger balm
  • [ ] on cock
  • [ ] on ass
• [ ] chillis
  • [ ] on cock
  • [ ] on ass
• [ ] be told what to wear
• [ ] wear makeup
• [ ] be whipped with electrical cord
• [ ] be called pretty when wearing feminine attire & makeup unprompted
• [ ] predicament bondage
• [ ] cook for a top
• [ ] make drinks for a top
• [ ] have a top tatoo me
• [ ] get an apadravha
• [ ] sounding
• [ ] host a cocktail party wearing a dress & makeup
• [ ] smothered by ass
• [ ] have a top allow a partner to have their way with, do whatever they want with, me
• [ ] spiritual sex. chakras
• [ ] give a massage
• [ ] give a footrub
• [ ] worship
  • [ ] feet
  • [ ] legs
  • [ ] armpit
• [ ] be made to worship but nothing else
• [ ] receive a massage
• [ ] be teased ignoring cock
• [ ] be teased including cock
• [ ] replacement & active sexual deprivation, beyond denial
  • [ ] be allowed to be around partners doing sex things but not allowed to be involved
  • [ ] be allowed some things but not others
    • [ ] not allowed to taste ass or pussy
    • [ ] not allowed to see partners' bodies - must be blindfolded
    • [ ] not allowed to touch a partner's skin - only through fabric
• [ ] mindfuckery
• [ ] be banned to ask for nice things
• [ ] burned - candles, hot metal
• [ ] candle wax
• [ ] be made to wear a collar fulltime
• [ ] be made to entertain a top
• [ ] be made to fuck own mouth for top’s entertainment
• [ ] be made to fuck own ass for top’s entertainment
• [ ] be made to sleep bound
• [ ] be made to sleep on floor while top sleeps in bed
• [ ] have other people hold all my keys
• [ ] clean muddy feet
• [ ] clean muddy shoes
• [ ] be made to ask a guy to fuck a partner
• [ ] bodypaint
• [ ] strapon fuck someone in the countryside
• [ ] help host a kink party
• [ ] go on a night out in slutty, feminine clothes, makeup and a wig/feminised hair
• [ ] fight
• [ ] a top strap fucks me while they’re fully clothed
• [ ] organise a partner’s group sex event
• [ ] a top gives me piss to drink openly at parties, etc.
• [ ] lick whipped cream from a woman’s body
• [ ] one woman rides my face, one woman rides my strap
• [ ] i worship a partner while they have phone sex with someone else
• [ ] pain art
• [ ] stress position
• can only eat pet food
  • [ ] once
  • [ ] for a while
• can only eat bad food
  • [ ] once
  • [ ] for a while
• [ ] nudist walking in the countryside
• [ ] receive a massage
• [ ] total sexual denial, removal of sexuality
  • [ ] be convinced and made to feel like like my sexuality is genuinely undesired
• [ ] have bottle caps bound to body in sadistic bondage (as described by Goddess Nyx)
• [ ] experience being treated like less than dirt for a while
• [ ] pushed beyond limits. fuck with consent. be made to feel like there's legitimately no way out.
  • [ ] physically
  • [ ] mentally
• [ ] kept in crate / cage
• [ ] ball pain for a long time
• [ ] kept on diet of plain, tasteless food that is deliberately made to be unpleasant for a while
  • acceptably healthy, added nutrients, etc.
• [ ] deliberately and systematically removal of pleasures
• [ ] humbler
• [ ] sensory deprivation for extended period of time
• [ ] gagged for extended
• [ ] complete refocus of all sexuality and sexual attention from this body/cock to partner. this body’s sexuality made taboo, erased, punishable, associated with negativity/pain/aversion.
  • [ ] cock treated with genuine, long-term repulsion?
• [ ] forced to be pierced
• [ ] forced to have tattoo
• [ ] made to be slutty in public
• [ ] made to be a camwhore
• [ ] made to feel like they actually think i’m pretty when all dolled up
• [ ] latex in fields / nature
• [ ] bound in water. head underwater.
  • [ ] piss drowning
• [ ] banned from women, give to men
• [ ] pussy free
  • taste, smell, touch, sight
• [ ] any reference to its cock is banned