guidance literals

they established that they expect the toy to provide guidance them in dominance towards the dynamic it believes they want, this means it must tell them anything that they are at liberty to do or say that would directly or indirectly help achieve their desires or benefit them with regards to the dynamic.

it believes they often have an idea of what they want but don't know what to say or do to get there. they can tell the toy these vague ideas and order it to figure out how to realise them, if they like. with an enforced time limit, as always.

when they do know what they want, they can simply add a rule or give a directive. it's as simple as:

• "new rule: the toy must have permission to kiss me"
• "cleanliness and tidiness in my flat is now the toy's responsibility. every time i'm find mess, it will be punished"
• "new rule: the toy may not avoid jealousy and must push into it for my entertainment; it must ask questions, make suggestions, and generally support my relationships regardless of how it feels"

any rule or directive must be enforced, otherwise the an owner loses authority over the toy.

probably a worthwhile thing for them to bear in mind and practice is they can do what they like and figure it out that way. let go and fuck around. relax into it. trust that if they ever went too hard, it would tell them — and until that happens, they're free to do as they please.