an owner
this is a living doc, it will be updated over time.
the toy now firmly understands what its looking for in an owner. it might spin off a separate, refined section just to specify the things it has found that it 'needs', as this has become a 'craves' list. what it 'wants' doesn't come into it.
someone who:
- is perfectly selfish in sexuality and service
- cares about the toy in some respects. enough that it trusts them.
- does not care about it in all sexual regards.
- pushes it to and beyond its limits. wants to fuck it up. wants to break it.
- takes the dynamic seriously.
- always demands perfection. doesn't let things slide. has high standard. is strict.
- enforces harshly
- interprets failure and poor performance has disrespect
- not afraid to leave a mark. wants to leave a mark.
- enjoys and motivated by the toy's pain and fear
- enjoys deep, harsh humiliation and degradation
- is pro-active. makes things happen. wants to do more. does not over-think what they do with it. can just let go and do what they feel like as it comes to them.
- does not respect the toy.
perhaps this is the crux. that they care for it but do not respect it. - uses it for their own pleasure at the cost of its own dignity and pleasure, e.g. fucking other people in front of it
- fucks with the toy simply because it's funny or entertaining.
- is naturally cruel
- can play without mercy
- enjoys bondage and keeping the toy tied. enjoys keeping it bound for extended periods.
- including everyday constraints
- enjoys using toys, etc. against it
- doesn't want to fuck its cock
- doesn't want to use their mouth between its legs
- doesn't want it to use its mouth on them despite how much it wants to
- forces it to be a high standard of physical appearance and fitness
- corrects its behaviour with force and serious punishments
- comfortable, even enjoys, pushing it to do things it genuinely doesn't want to do
- enjoys deep control
- has other partners, fucks other people
- expects it to suffer in silence. pain, humiliation and anything else it endures should not have an outwardly visible affect.
e.g. the spikes shouldn't make it walk differently - enforces gratitude and enthusiasm for everything
- relishes keeping it in extended states of misery
- doesn't expect to pay for everything and is careful with its money.
- takes respect in all regards seriously. takes disrespect seriously.
e.g. when it deigns to be late - desires to push it further and further down into submission whilst using it to elevate themselves
- makes it vulnerable
- is unapologetic. doesn't feel the need to say please, thank you or sorry
- is comfortable/happy with blood and making it bleed
examples:
- is not overly concerned about its health such that they force it to eat disgusting substances or food that has gone over, but can still be mindful of botulism.
or, more likely, someone who doesn't think about the health consequences and just allows the toy to request not to do something when it might be genuinely harmless.